Comments on: Don’t Hold a Grudge!

By: dlysen

dlysen — Sun, 28 Aug 2011 05:02:55 +0000

People who held their grudges become more happier when they let go of it. It is just like letting go or leaving up the heavy loads. It is nicer to thing happy than thinking all of your grudges.

By: Korin

Korin — Thu, 07 Apr 2011 00:01:51 +0000

Holding grudges is an immature way to be mad at someone and it’s just easier to apologize and be over with the mess.

By: Walter

Walter — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 13:53:29 +0000

Grudges are something we treasure, despite the fact the it gives us no benefit whatsoever. Until we realize that grudges keep us miserable, we will never really learn to forgive and let go.

By: Ben Weston

Ben Weston — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 05:15:28 +0000

good list of recommendations. I know of people for which the grudges will fester inside of them to the point of actual illnesses and disease. The common theme amongst the recommendations is choice. It's choosing to take control of the grudges, which sometimes may not be something people want. .-= Ben Weston´s last blog ..How To Get What You Want =-.

By: Eduard @ Ideas With A Kick

Eduard @ Ideas With A Kick — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 22:23:13 +0000

I think the fact that we can even hold a grudge proves how seriously we take some things and how much people can wound us psychologically. Building independence and emotional toughness is my favorite way to not hold a grudge.

By: Kaushik

Kaushik — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 19:47:15 +0000

As the Buddhists say, holding on to a grudge is like holding on to a hot coal, waiting to throw it at someone. Best, and easy, to let go. .-= Kaushik´s last blog ..Divine Valentine and 2012 =-.